Like many of you, I’m no stranger to grief or tragedy. Ten years ago my mum died from a condition resulting from radiotherapy. A year later, my aunt also passed away.

We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. Hebrews 6:19

I thought I’d learned enough about loss. Then three years ago, my husband and I found out we were pregnant. Elation turned to grief when a few weeks later, I miscarried. I’d dealt with losing a parent, but to lose a child before you could even see the heart beat? That had never entered my mind. What do you do when grief laps at your feet again?

I wrote in my journal at the time:

“Hope is the only thing that can enable you to look up. It’s the only thing you can cling to when you know that the world has kept on going even though you’ve stopped and you know you have to join them again.

For me, it’s the hardest thing about grief. The getting up. You have to let go. But letting go requires courage and the belief that you’re not forgetting or blocking it out as if nothing ever happened, but that you accept that it has hurt you and you have mourned, but life doesn’t finish here. So even though tears still stain my face, I can’t stay in this moment.”

Hope can sometimes sound like a dirty word. The following months were the toughest I’d experienced. It seemed as if everyone was telling me they were pregnant. I honestly wondered whether it was all some cruel joke.

But when those thoughts begin to haunt us, we need to remind ourselves that the hope we have is firm and secure. Jesus is Hope. When ALL seems impossible, when the outlook is bleak, His Word is sure and His faithfulness never ending.

Our hope and dream has become reality. Our baby girl was born on 29 July 2011 and she is perfect. Her name is Imogen Hope.

So whatever is overwhelming you, don’t give up. If you’ve lost hope, don’t give up. God is faithful. Hope in Him.

By Nikki Sealey, Compassion UK

Tags: child poverty, child sponsorship, compassion, faith, hope